Blog | Dr. Sarah Larsen ~ Medical Intuitive and Energy Healer

You Help Others Be Empowered: You help them “Stop” the Apologies, and Begin the way to “Start” Seeing

You live in a world where so many beautiful, capable people walk around whispering “sorry” for taking up space. Sorry for having needs. Sorry for wanting more. Sorry for shining a little too brightly when someone else feels dim. Sorry for existing as they are — messy, growing, human, and utterly worthy.

You see it, don’t you? That quiet glow in someone when they forget to hide. The way their eyes light up talking about a dream they’ve buried for years. The strength they don’t even realize they carry. The kindness they give so freely while starving themselves of the same grace.

And when you truly see someone — not their polished mask, not their achievements résumé, but the raw, radiant miracle of who they are — something fierce rises up inside you.
You want them to have everything.
Not just the basics.
Not just enough to scrape by.

Everything — love that feels safe, opportunities that stretch them, rest that actually restores, voices that matter, boundaries that are honored, joy that isn’t rationed.

So how do you already help them get there?

In subtle energy.

Yes, you start by helping them stop apologizing for wanting it all.

The first step is simple, but it’s everything:

See them clearly — and tell them what you see.

Not vague compliments. Not generic encouragement. Specific, honest, unflinching witnessing.

“You have such a gentle way of making people feel safe — I hope you know how rare that is.”
“The way you think about problems isn’t like anyone else I know — the world needs that mind of yours wide open, not shrunk down.”

“I’ve watched you carry so much without breaking — you deserve space to put some of it down and still be loved.”

When someone has spent years apologizing for their light, hearing that someone else refuses to look away from it can be the first crack in the old story.

It plants a seed:
Maybe I’m not too much. Maybe I’m allowed to want more. Maybe I’m allowed to stop saying sorry for being alive.

Empowerment isn’t about fixing people. It’s about refusing to let them stay small when you can see how vast they truly are.

Keep seeing. Keep speaking what you see. Keep holding space so they can finally stop apologizing and start claiming.

And maybe, just maybe, in choosing to see the miracle in every person around us, we start to live as though everything truly is one.

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. — Albert Einstein

In my near death experiences I understood deep spiritual concepts
and began searching in every book
in every waking breathe a way to share it with my loved ones.

Like me, have you had a near death experience that made you more alive than ever
because you know “The Ecstasy of Oneness”?

“The way we treat people is the way we treat God.”
– Teilhard de Chardin

From: https://www.xavier.edu/jesuitresource/online-resources/

Top 8 Golden Rule Quotes:

“Everything you should do you will find in this: Do nothing to others that would hurt you if it were done to you.” – Mahabharata 5:1517 (Hinduism)

“Do not offend others as you would not want to be offended.” – Udanavarga 5:18 (Buddhism)

“The successes of your neighbor and their losses will be to you as if they are your own.” – T’ai-Shang Kan-Ying P’ien (Taoism)

“Is there any rule that one should follow all of one’s life? Yes! The rule of the gentle goodness: That which we do not wish to be done to us, we do not do to others.” – Analectas 15:23 (Confucianism)

“That which you do not wish for yourself you shall not wish for your neighbor. This is the whole law; the rest is only commentary.” – Talmud Shabbat 31a (Judaism)

“In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you. For this sums up the law and the prophets.” – Matthew 7:12 (Christianity)

“None of you shall be true believers unless you wish for your brother the same that you wish for yourself.” – Sunnatt (Islam)

“Do one of the above; And live in such a way that you will enrich, and not diminish, our relatives in the Earth family of animals and plants, soil, air, and water.” – Earth Wisdom